PHOTOS: Several killed in balcony collapse in Berkeley
Ashley Donohoe, 22, of Rohnert Park, California, and her cousin Olivia Burke, 21, of Ireland were mourned Saturday at a Catholic Mass, where those in attendance wiped away tears but also laughed as a priest shared memories of the best friends.
"Both of them had a good and promising story and it came to an abrupt and tragic end," Rev. Daniel Whelton said.
The priest said making sense of the tragedy is impossible.
A bagpipe player led a brief procession of heartbroken family and friends carrying the coffins into St. Joseph Catholic Church in Cotati. Wreaths of white flowers and emerald green ribbons decorated the church.
The Donohoe and Burke families thanked the community for its support.
When Burke turned 18, Donohoe traveled to Ireland and surprised her. Burke often traveled to California to spend time with her cousin, said Whelton, who led the service at the same church where Donohoe was baptized. "Growing up, they would dress alike and they would try to fool their parents into thinking they were twins," Whelton said with those in attendance breaking into laughter.
Whelton said Donohoe's mother told him the two were embracing when they died. "In life they were together and in death they are together," he said.
Friends say Donohoe could do anything. She was a phenominal athlete with her soccer club, studying biology at Sonoma State, all while working two jobs. "She was such a beautiful person, everything like her energy was so amazing that at a time like this, we need someone like her," Taylor Dodds said.
The family spokesperson issued a message saying: "Ashley and Olivia were two very intelligent, talented and hard-working young ladies. They had bright futures ahead of them. We'll fight to make changes so that no family will have to go through what we have gone through," family spokesperson Rusty Rudick said.
At a less somber celebration of the women's lives in a ballroom at Sonoma State University, where Donohoe was studying Biology, two giant screen projected photographs of the cousins as children and young women hugging, dressing up and making funny faces.
Donohoe's sister, Amanda Donohoe, said her sister traveled at least 22 times to Ireland to spend time with their cousin. "Although their lives were really short and ended in a tragic way, they still led full lives with the short time they did have," she said. "None of us will ever forget them."
A dozen family and friends shared memories of the women that made about 6000 people in the massive room laugh and tear up. A group of Irish dancers performed while the crowd ate lunch.
The two cousins were among the six people killed on Tuesday when the balcony snapped off the fifth floor of a Berkeley apartment building during a birthday party, tossing 13 people to the street 50 feet below. Seven people are being treated in hospitals.
The other four dead victims were mourned at a Friday night vigil in Oakland attended by family members and dozens of their fellow Irish students - including some who saw them in their final moments.
Hearses carried the four metal caskets into St. Columba Catholic Church, where about 15 of the victims' immediate family members huddled together in the rectory for about an hour before entering the church for the private viewing. Reporters were not allowed inside.
A bus and a van bearing about 50 other Irish students living in the Bay Area for the summer, as the four victims were, came to the church to honor the dead. The group included students who had been at the party where the balcony collapsed.
The church's sanctuary was decorated with cloths in the colors of the Irish flag and had screens in each corner of the room with projected images of the six students.
Several city officials from Berkeley visited to pay respects to the families. They included the city's mayor, police chief and fire chief, along with first responders who aided the victims the night of the accident.
Jimmy Deenihan, Ireland's minister for the diaspora, said the tragedy had garnered great attention in Ireland, and he was touched by how much support for the victims and their families he has found in the U.S. "You can't really appreciate the trauma they are going through; only they can," Deenihan said.
Those being honored were Eoghan Culligan, Niccolai Schuster, Lorcan Miller and Eimear Walsh, all 21 year olds from Ireland.
Families of the Irish students have made plans to take the bodies of their loved ones back to Ireland on Sunday.
The Archdiocese of San Francisco is celebrating Mass for the students of the Berkeley tragedy at St. Mary's Cathedral at 11 a.m. Sunday.
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The Associated Press contributed to this story.