Dating career rules

Phase One: Courting
Explore your options, feel out f there an interest, and decide if you want to take it to the next level. Finding a career you love is all about laying a solid foundation, and frankly, it can take some time. Desperate not to be alone (unemployed), way too many women rush into a commitment (ignoring all the warnings signs) with the wrong company and a year later they're back on the streets.

Phase Two: Dating
Offer has been made, but that doesn't mean you can't keep your eyes peeled for other more interesting options-you can look (go online and see what's available) but don't touch (accept an offer) unless you're willing to risk a breakup.

Phase Three:Marriage/Long Term Commitment
You've got that ring on your finger (the title, the raise, or the corner office you've been waiting for) and it's bigger, shinier, and more flauntable than you've ever imagined. It feels like smooth sailing from here on out, now's the time for consistent checking and balancing.

Nicole's Top Ten Commandments of Style:

  1. Know Your Body
  2. Choose classic over trendy
  3. Fit trumps quality
  4. Splurge when necessary (or keep the tags on!)
  5. Mind your lines
  6. Black is always back
  7. Good shoes can transform an outfit
  8. Accessorize in moderation
  9. Learn how to layer
  10. Turn to the experts

About Nicole Williams:

Career expert and bestselling author Nicole Williams is redefining the world of work-making it glamorous, entertaining and relevant to modern women. Nicole founded WORKS by Nicole Williams in 2006 with the vision of building the first media and content company focused on career development specifically for the highly dynamic and powerful market of young professional women. Her website,, is the go-to destination site for modern working women. Nicole is the author of two bestselling books; Wildly Sophisticated: A Bold New Attitude for Career Success (2004) and Earn What You're Worth (2005), published by Penguin Group Inc. Her latest book Girl on Top, was recently purchased by Hachette Book Group and will be published in Fall 2009.

Nicole is a frequent contributor to Elle, Self, Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Marie Claire, Women's Health, Money, The New York Post, The Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post and The Financial Times. She has also appeared as a regular contributor on The Today Show, ABC's Primetime, Good Morning America, The Big Idea with Donny Deutsch, Fox News, and CNN. Nicole is the "lifestyle for the working woman columnist" for MSN and is the executive editor of the popular WORKS e-newsletters: Chic on the Cheap, Cubicle Confessions and Celeb Career Thermometer.

>>Buy this book on Amazon: Girl on Top: Your Guide to Turning Dating Rules into Career Success

Meet Nicole Williams tomorrow at 6PM at "The Limited" at the Westfield Valley Fair Shopping Center for a mixer with fellow Girls on Top, and a book signing and career fashion show.

The Limited is located at '2855 Steven's Creek Boulevard Santa Clara

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