For free gift wrapping go to gap.com and apple.com. Nordstrom.com and victoriasecret.com offer "do-it-your-self" wrapping kits.
Free shipping is a very big deal, but if you want to avoid shipping altogether you can get store pick-up from bestbuy.com, jcpenney.com and toysrus.com.
Free shipping day is set for this Friday. More than 2000 retailers are participating, so it should be pretty easy to get your items sent out free of charge.